Sunday, September 23, 2007

The Ducks are Coming, The Ducks are Coming!



October 7, 2007 will mark HEF'S (Hawthorne Education Foundation) 1st Annual Ducky Derby. (Rain date is October 21, 2007. All proceeds benefit Hawthorne's public schools.



For complete details, visit: http://www.hefonline.com or contact Burt Alkes at: (551) 206-4001.

Be sure to join us for what promises to be a fun-filled family day!

Thursday, September 20, 2007

Vendor/Craft Fair!!!

Come and join us.....we promise you'll have a great time!!!

The Washington Elementary School PTO will be hosting a Vendor/Craft Fair on Sunday, October 14th.

In addition to various vendors/crafters, the fair will also have a 50/50 raffle, door prize raffle, face painting, and food stands.

The fair is being held on the school grounds, located at 176 Washington Avenue Hawthorne, NJ, and will begin at 11:00 a.m. and admission is $3.00.

Vendors/Crafters interested in setting up a table are asked to contact Kelly at: (973) 238 - 1366. Tables are $35.00 each. Only one vendor from each company will be accepted.

Sunday, July 22, 2007

Bragging on my baby(ies)

So, just as each summer, it appears that I am once again a delerict blogger!

I apologize. Everyone refers to "the lazy, hazy summer days"......WHERE???? That's what I want to know.

I swore once school was over I'd have more time. It's funny how we fool ourselves, isn't it?

Anyway, I wanted to take a moment to brag on my little one, and my two feline boys.

Enjoy!

I present........my beautiful ballerina and her beautiful ballerina buddies:



























My "baby" and her bestest buddy:















The tapping divas:











And last but not least, my feline baby boys......expressing brotherly love!

Sunday, July 01, 2007

20 Ways to Be Greener

Although I'm not quite sure I am receiving email from Baby Center, the subject line of this email caught my attention.

These are some REALLY SIMPLE things we can all do to be more Earth friendly.


Green parenting: 20 small steps that make a big difference
By Leslie Crawford


We all want to protect the planet. After all, our children's future is at stake, as well as our own. But for most moms and dads, hybrid minivans and solar panels are out of reach — and who has the energy to give up diapers or dishwashers?

The good news is, small changes can make a big difference. (Consider: If all 4 million BabyCenter monthly visitors swapped one regular light bulb for a fluorescent one, the carbon dioxide savings would roughly equal taking 76,000 cars off the road.)

We went to top environmental experts to get their best tips for busy parents and parents-to-be. Their advice will help you leave the world a healthier place for your child and save you money to boot. What could be better than that?

In your home

Make your fridge efficient

"The single biggest electricity user in your house is the refrigerator," says Lisa Moore, climate and air scientist at Environmental Defense, who notes that you can reduce the energy drain with a few simple tricks. Cleaning the coils every six months will help you use less energy and save money. (Flip up or remove the kick plate or toe grill, and clean with a vacuum attachment or bottle brush. Make sure to unplug the fridge or turn off its circuit breaker first.) So will keeping the fridge set between 38 and 40 degrees and the freezer between 0 and 5 degrees — the settings where it's most efficient.

Stop standby waste

Unplugging TVs, DVD players, computers, and other major electronics when they're not in use could keep thousands of pounds of carbon dioxide out of the air each year, according to Al Gore's site An Inconvenient Truth. (Even when they're turned off, their standby consumption is about equal to running a light bulb continuously.)

To avoid the hassle of constantly plugging and unplugging, here's an easy solution: Plug several electronics onto one power strip and switch it off. As for small gadgets like cell phones, digital cameras, and hand-held vacuums — once they're charged, keep them unplugged until needed.

Light up right

"Switching from traditional incandescent bulbs to fluorescent is the easiest and most cost-efficient fix for saving energy," says actress Rachelle Carson-Begley, wife of actor and eco-activist Ed Begley Jr. Even though fluorescent bulbs cost more, you'll save up to $60 in energy bills over the lifetime of the bulb.

If you don't like the look of fluorescent, switch out the garage and hall lights, and save the mood lighting for bedrooms and bathrooms. Or, mix iridescent and fluorescent in multibulb fixtures.

Flush water waste

A whopping 40 percent of the water used in your home goes down the toilet. A low-flow toilet can cut the amount you use by half or more (and yes, it'll work just as well).

A low-tech alternative: Put a brick or plastic milk jug filled with pebbles in the tank. The space it takes up reduces the amount of water needed to fill the tank, so you'll save gallons (and money) with each flush.

Fix drips and leaks

A leaky faucet? Time to call the plumber. That slow but steady drip, drip, drip can waste up to 20 gallons of water a day.

Extra credit: Replacing standard faucets and showerheads with low-flow versions will help a family of four save 20,000 gallons a year.

There are plenty of other small but significant ways to conserve, says Joanna Yarrow, author of 1001 Ways to Help the Earth. "Keep a pitcher of water in the fridge so you don't waste water as you wait for it to get cold from the tap," she recommends. "And turn the water off when brushing your teeth."

Use dishwasher smarts

"A lot of people think washing by hand is more environmentally friendly than running a dishwasher," says Yarrow. Not necessarily so. You can save up to 20 gallons of water a day by waiting till your dishwasher's full to switch it on. You'll save even more energy by letting dishes air dry on the racks instead of using the heat dry cycle. Plus, most new dishwashers don't need you to prerinse. Simply scrape off food and load, and you'll conserve another 20 gallons.And if you're in the market for a new dishwasher (or any appliance), look for the Energy Star label. It'll save you more than $40 a year in utility bills, and many power companies offer rebates as well.

Wash in cold

"By washing clothes in cold water rather than warm or hot," says EcoMom Alliance president Kimberly Danek-Pinkson, "you can eliminate 500 pounds of carbon dioxide emissions a year." (Bonus: Your clothes will last longer.)

If cold water isn't going to cut it with your kid's grimy duds, opting for warm water over hot still saves energy and gets clothes clean.To make laundry day even more energy-efficient, wait until you have a full load. Danek-Pinkson also advises rethinking what constitutes dirty. "Kids go through lots of outfits that wind up on the floor, and then you toss them in the laundry basket," she says. "Ask yourself, 'Is this really dirty?' If not, think of all the energy you'll spare — for the planet and yourself — by not washing them."

Get the lint out

"If you clean out the lint filter of your clothes dryer before each load, you'll reduce your energy use by up to 30 percent," says Jennifer Hattam, green living expert for the Sierra Club. (That's nothing to sneeze at, considering the dryer is one of the biggest energy hogs in the house.)

As with the washer, waiting till you have a full load saves lots of energy.

Adjust the thermostat

"Turning the thermostat just two degrees up or down saves a lot of energy and money," says Earth Day Network president Kathleen Rogers, who headed up the Two Degree Campaign.

Rogers recommends setting that thermostat dial to 68 degrees in winter and 72 in the summer. For winter nights, lower to 65 degrees and pile on the blankets. And if possible, opt for an energy-efficient fan instead of air conditioning during summer.

On the road

Pump up tires

"If you'd properly inflate your tires, you could reduce global warming and have cleaner air to breath," says Savannah Waters, who founded Pump 'Em Up at age 9.

She makes a good point. If all American drivers kept their tires at the recommended pressure, we'd save about 4 million gallons of gas a day (and our tires would last longer, too).

Drive smart

When waiting to pick up kids after school or soccer practice, you'll spare the air — and the lungs of the children waiting for their rides — if you don't let your car idle. The Environmental Protection Agency recommends turning off your engine if you're going to be in one place for more than 30 seconds.

Also, be a steady driver. By avoiding sudden braking and acceleration, you'll increase fuel efficiency by as much as 40 percent. And if you set your highway cruising speed to 55 to 60 miles per hour, you'll save even more gas."Driving the speed limit and at a steady speed, without sudden stops and starts, is safer for you and your children anyway," Jennifer Hattam points out.

Plan your trip (or just walk)

Given that roughly a quarter of daily car trips are one mile or less, there's a health-friendly alternative way to get to the local market or park.

"Get out of your car," says Rachelle Carson-Begley. "Walk a little and get your exercise." And when you do climb into your car, plan your trip so you hit all your stops along the most efficient route — you'll save time, money, and gas.

Trim your trash

Rethink the baby wipes

Most baby wipes take several hundred years to break down, says Joanna Yarrow. Considering the number of wipes used in the United States (about 5,000 per baby), that's a lot of landfill.

The most earth- and baby-friendly alternative, Yarrow says, is to make your own by cutting cotton fabric into small squares and washing them when dirty. At the very least, when just a quick swipe of a wipe is needed for easy cleanups, rip a wipe in half.

Bring your own bag

It takes 12 million barrels of oil, and 14 million trees, to make all the paper and plastic bags Americans go through each year.

Next time you shop, take cloth bags (keep a few in the trunk to have on hand). Or just reuse — sturdy plastic bags or double-bagged paper ones hold up for months, and they're free.

Extra credit: Reuse plastic produce bags, or pick up a few cloth ones (you'll find them at Reusablebags.com).

Break the bottle habit

Making and even recycling plastic water bottles uses energy and releases pollution, and every year, millions of them wind up in landfill. It's not worth the waste, argues Gina Solomon, senior scientist for the National Resources Defense Council. "Bottled water is often just tap water with a fancy label and a high price, and it's not any better for you," she says.

In fact, Consumer Reports found that about a quarter of bottled water comes from the tap. A more earth-friendly alternative is to fill reusable aluminum or stainless steel bottles with tap. If you're concerned about water quality or don't like the taste, try a filter (our food safety area has info on the various kinds).

Buy recycled paper

Yes, it costs more. But the paper industry is the third largest contributor to global warming, according to StopGlobalWarming.org.

If your budget doesn't allow for it, try to reuse. For instance, take home used paper from the office and use the clean side for to-do lists, phone messages, and art projects — and then toss it in the recycle bin.

RecycleIt sounds old-fashioned to mention recycling — until you consider that an incredible 69 percent of Americans still don't do it. For tips, including what's recyclable in your town, go to Earth 911.

Extra credit: Try to steer clear of food and toys wrapped in excess packaging.

Have a kid swap party

No, we're not suggesting you trade in your temperamental toddler. In the spirit of community and recycling, Grist president Chip Giller swaps kid items with other parents. "All our friends are having kids now, and we pass clothes and toys from one person to another," he says. If you make a party out of it, you get a twofer: new duds and toys, plus plenty of fun.

Saturday, June 30, 2007

Box Tops for Education

For those of you that are involved in your children's school and or PTO, Box Tops are are an absolutely fabulous way for your school to raise money.

It's simply and requires hardly any time at all......all you have to do is clip the little "Box Tops" off of products you probably already use.

To make it even more appealing, the website offers activity sheets that you can print for your child, or the entire school, have them tape their box tops, color the activity sheet and hand in at school.

Our school has actually made Box Top collection even more enticing by offering the children a chance to win a Barnes and Noble gift card. Each child that completes and hands in his or her activity sheet is entered into a drawing with the winner being announced at the beginning of the following month. Additionally, the class with the largest number of Box Tops wins an ice cream party.

Be sure to check out the site.

The site also has recipes and other activities for the children to get excited about being involved.

http://www.boxtops4education.com/AboutBoxTops/

Friday, June 29, 2007

Managing Difficult People

I came across the following article and thought that almost everyone could use some of this advice.

Managing Difficult People

Is there someone in your workplace a dominant manager, a difficult co-worker, or maybe even a demanding client or customer who drives you crazy? If you have to work with difficult people every day, you probably dread going to work each morning. What's more, you might get so stressed that you can't concentrate on the job.

Difficult people and situations exist in every workplace. They all have one thing in common. You must address them.

Characterizing them can help separate the person from the behavior. Difficult people can be characterised as follows:
  • The snake can gossip about or criticize others' personal lives or engage in inappropriate public disagreements. This can pollute personal relations and the work environment, and bring the organization into disrepute.
    The shark can display similar characteristics to the snake but acts subversively, such as withholding information, advancing irrational excuses for incomplete work, and harassing colleagues.
  • The wild cat is often unseen at work. They may have a history of withholding information or advancing ridiculous excuses for incomplete work and poor performance, about which they can be defensive. They may refuse to do some work, sabotage the work of others and reject being managed by anyone. They can attract undue management time and cause colleagues stress and frustration.
  • The hyena can be rude, aggressive, domineering and negative about people, always blaming others and never taking responsibility for their own actions. There can be complaints about them, colleagues can become tense and disaffected, and sickness and absence rates can rise.

Most importantly, if you are embroiled in a constant conflict at work, you may not only get blamed for being "unable to handle the situation like a mature professional," you may be labeled as a "difficult" person, too. If the situation continues to deteriorate over time, the organization and your boss may tire of you, and you could lose your job.

So how can you keep yourself immune to these problem co-workers? An obvious way of dealing with traumatic people is to just stay away from them. And where this is feasible, it usually works.

However, there are four problems with this approach. One is that it's not always possible to avoid people, particularly if you work or live with them. Second, if you avoid people who are still in your orbit, you may find yourself looking over your shoulder to make sure they're not nearby. The third is that you don't learn how to deal with the person if you simply skirt around the problem. It won't help you to develop better coping strategies. And fourth, you could actually end up magnifying your stress when you do see them.

So, when avoidance doesn't do the trick, here are some tips for handling difficult people at work:

  • Stand up to overly aggressive people. Like the hyena, stand up to them, but don't fight. Overly aggressive people expect others to either run away from them or react with rage. Your goal is simply to assertively express your own views, not try to win a battle of right and wrong. First, wait for the person to run out of some steam. Then call the person by name and assert your opinions with confidence.
  • Beware of bad bosses. Bosses are in charge, whether you like it or not. If your intention is to keep your job, you will have to learn how to get along with an arrogant or controlling boss. If you need to confront your boss, avoid putting him or her on the defensive. This is too risky a situation to put yourself in.
  • Take concrete action. Once you are fully aware of what is happening, deciding to live with the situation long-term is rarely an option. Your situation won't improve unless you do something about it. Let the co-worker in question knows that you are on to his or her game and that you will escalate it to a higher authority if necessary. Don't let the problem aggravate. Make sure to take action swiftly. You may eventually become so angry that your efforts to address the situation could become irrational. It's far better to tackle the problem while you can maintain some objectivity and emotional control.
  • Never sink to their level. Some no-no's: sending anonymous notes, gossiping about the person or bad-mouthing him or her to the boss.
  • Make the first move. If you approach a difficult person with the belief that he or she is as eager as you are to restore harmony, you can make the first move. Start your conversation with such as "I'm sorry for what I may have done to hurt you," or, "I could be wrong."
  • Preserve your reputation. Constant complaining about the situation can quickly earn you the title of "office grouch." Managers might wonder why you're unable to solve your own problems, even if their tolerance of the situation is part of the problem. If you are embroiled in a constant conflict at work, you may end up getting blamed for other problems.
  • Always agree to disagree. If you personally dislike a co-worker or boss, you can still learn from their opinions, viewpoints and ideas. If you can find something to appreciate about them, comment on it in a favorable way.

Remember, it's always better to check your fight, flight or freeze reactions and refuse to be a part of a duel in which you're an inadvertent participant. Sure, you need to stand up for yourself, but do so without demanding that you be above criticism at all costs. Remind yourself of your long-range goals: saving time, energy, hassle and maybe even your own hide.

The writer is a freelance training consultant. He can be reached at e-mail: sinder1866@yahoo.com.

Wednesday, June 27, 2007

Summer Skin Savvy

Summer Skin Savvy
Everything you need to know to keep sun damage from ruining your summer fun

Are you still one of those people who wears sunscreen at the beach, but not the rest of the time? If so, you're making a common sun mistake and it could cost you in premature aging -- or even cancer.

Fight back against sun damage with solid information about how to use sunscreen properly, how to find the best type for your skin, what to do if you do get burned, and why tanning beds aren't safer.

Make 2007 a summer you'll never regret. And one you remember because of the memories, not the wrinkles!

To your health,Michele Bloomquist, Editor
iVillage Wellness
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